First time Experience#1 : Kidnapped By Four of Your Women Friends (Disya, Kika, Amel, and Cicil)
So, on Friday 01/12/2023. I’ve got kidnapped by four of my friends. Disya, Kika, Amel, and Cicil. That day, started as usual, like any other routine Friday from last week, the week before that, and the week before before that. Which is started by going to Seminar Proposal (Sempro) Karya classes in room C0802, in the my very lovely almamater (Multimedia Nusantara University) at eight o’clock. However this week, was sort of a chill class week, nothing major happened. Ms. Alin, our lecturer only ask the update of each our sempro work. That’s why, it’s not quite jam packed with questions and presentations.
And yeah somehow at late seventh semester, I kind of find some new group of friends that I enjoy myself, and if my perception not mistaken, they kinda also felt free, and accepting me to sort of join and hangout together. Maybe for context, I kind of started get friends with Disya first, due to our same topic in sempro. Which is about disability. So, in a random act, I texted her, asking if she would accompany me to visit Sunyi Coffee in Barito Blok M. And to my surprise, she knew some potential sources I can try to ask for my sempro. Hence we go there and just chat around, catch up, because I actually already acquainted with her from first semester. But, only recently kind of see more around and talk more on classes.
Yeah, so after that, more and more random topic come up in classes, the talking also spread to Kika and Amel. Hence, in definition somehow with them are friends?? Wkwkwkwk…, this is why I don’t have many friends. I overthink too much LOL :)
Yeah, so back to main quest timeline. After class, this jackass (me) as usual kind of confused on what to do next. Do i eat alone or work on some design poster for RADAR UMN alone in library. (by the way follow @radarumn on instagram okay gess hehehe). Either way, I’m alone like missing child after class often times. It’s sad but that just what happens. However, Kika or Disya, I forgot. Randomly asked me to just join them eat together.
“Where to,” asked me
“Don’t know, havent’t decided yet,” replied Kika or Disya.
“I knew a place, we should all tried it. A fried noodle shop,” added Amel.
“Why not just at canteen? There is also chicken noodle and soto betawi. Kind of fits while the weather are cloudy and a bit cold now,” asked me back to the girls.
“Bored glo. Wanted to try eat outside UMN,” replied Cicil back to my question.
“Well, okeyy up to the girls gengs.”
Five minutes later, still they cannot decide on what to eat. However, they kept on walking towards the parking basement where Amel car’s where parked. On the way to the car, at first I was a bit skeptical, because it’s four women guys and I’m the only guy there. Never ever before I had my women friends asked me to join them on eating and talking just hangout. So, in the spirit of friendships, I just follow along. It’s just to eat. What could possibly go wrong. Well.., nothing did indeed goes wrong. I’m still alive and writing this page now. However, that day I did pray to GOD not to get crushed by trucks in the highway or get in an accident. Can you imagine going 90 km/hours speed down on the left shoulder of the highways. With jam packed big vehicle full of trucks in one line, right beside us.
What the fuck Mel?! I still wanted to live until 70’s at least. Goddamn woman. I knew it’s your car and you’re the driver. I just imagining if we indeed do have multiverse. Maybe there’s one where the exact same period and events happened, but I died, Disya, Kika, Cicil, and Amel died together on that trip. Ooo yeah, and by the way, the find the food trip, we ended up going to Green Lake City at West Jakarta Province. Miles away from Gading Serpong. Hence, that’s why the title “Get Kidnapped By Four Of Your Women Friends.” And the link below is somehow a reference on how dangerous Amel drives wkwkwk…
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cz3ShOYp_WA/? utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=ODhhZWM5NmIwOQ==
Jokes aside, it’s indeed a nice change of routine though. Can get to know the girls a bit more. How each one of them had already a boyfriend, except me and Disya. Maybe next year in 2024, when we hangout again, hopefully Disya had her own bf’s, and I had my own gf’s. Could be a target checklist?
Ended up having a nice hangout, ate up a boneless chicken that’s just plain, but tried out the royal earl milk tea at Lippo Mall Puri and it’s quite good. Also, it’s my first time went to Lippo Mall Puri and like any other mall in my opinion. While hangout, the girls were having an online classes, then Kika and Disya with me had weekly online meetings as a volunteer at KonekinIndonesia. What else? I guess that’s it, we went back to UMN and said goodbye with Cicil and Amel. While Kika and Disya waited for their busses. Sometimes this past few weeks, on Friday evening, I accompanied them and we just talked random stuff while waiting for their bus.
Very random like this bit we talked that Friday. Kika suddenly talked that I actually quite a melancholy type of person. Quite mellow she said. Wkwkwkwk.
“Really? What is melancholy type of person Kik?
“Well, it’s type of person that overthink a lot, observant and see small things that happened close to them.”
“What, why? How can I be the melancholy type?”
“Hmm, well like earlier before we sit here, on the way you asked me and Disya. If somehow, the girls finds you annoying for joining or hangout with the groups, just tell you to the point.”
“Well, yeah I mean. It’s normal right?”
Disya now joined the conversation and said “Yes glo, but it’s an example of your overthinking. We’re always opening the door if you wanna hangout with us. Never liked too much drama and cingcong wkwkwk.”
“Wkwkwk, well siapp bu,” replied me back to Disya with my four fingers made a respect salute.
Still with that topic, I also asked Kika and Disya what their type of personality? Kika is also melancholy, and Disya is a phlegmatic (seek harmony and close relationships). Yepp, that’s it, then not long after, the busses came and they went back home. Left me wondering, that Friday was quite a day actually. Someway it could be said a new social experience.
